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BDSM Interview: Dizzy

Meet Mr Dizzy Baird from Charlotte in North Carolina. He's a General Contractor by trade and enjoys rigging, photography and training. Dizzy is a Daddy Dom and you can find him on FetLife as Daddy Baird.

 

Here we interview Dizzy about his lifestyle, inspirations and favourite things to do with his babygirl... 

 

How long have you been a dom?                  

15 years

 

How did you first get into it?                             

I started in the lifestyle at a very young age. At age 12 I was seduced by an older domme who I was submissive to for 2 years. At the age of 14 I became unhappy being submissive and asked to be released from service and to be mentored. Lady Jane agreed and I started my journey...

 

Would you ever go back to being vanilla?          

I honestly don't think i could. I have tried and I always come back to the lifestyle.

 

What do you like your sub to wear?                   

Very interesting question. Since me and my babygirl are in a 24/7 D/s TPE (total power exchange) and DDlg (Daddy Dom / little girl) mixed dynamic, it depends on the day. Most days, it's just jeans and a t-shirt, but some days it can be something extremely sexy. For me I believe a woman's body is like a gift if it's given only to me and shown to me then it remains special. If it's shown off and flaunted then what makes it special? I believe in conservative clothing unless we are doing an exhibition scene.

 

What’s your favourite set on our site and why? 

Probably the Xenia Boudoir set.

 

Do you have any advice for anyone looking to get into being a dom(me)?                                

Definitely take the time to do your research and make sure you are capable of the responsibilites that come with being a Dom. It’s not just bossing someone around and punishment. It entails so much more. Are you ready to be that person's rock when needed? Are you capable of taking the wheel and steering that person's life in the direction it needs to be? If you make a wrong choice, are you able to handle the responsibility of fixing your wrong call. This is someone else's life you are meddling with. Please do your research and if possible, find a mentor. Whether it be online or in real life.

 

Are you open about your lifestyle online and with family and friends?                                  

All of my family and friends knows about my lifestyle and most of my babygirl's family and friends are aware. We are very open about our lifestyle.

 

Describe your ideal sub.                                      

My ideal sub consists of sugar, spice, and everything nice. Who am I kidding? My babygirl listens and knows her boundaries. She is sexy in anything she wears. And does whatever she can to please me.

 

What’s your favourite thing to do with your sub?    

In the bedroom would be primal play or bondage. Outside of the bedroom would be protocol training and of course just lounging, relaxing, and living life.

 

How did you choose your safeword?                  

Being in a 24/7 TPE and, having been with each other 9 years, I know her limits and respect them even though we have pushed her limits and she has realized she can go further than she ever dreamed.

 

What/who inspires you?

The thought of improving my life and my babygirl's life is what motivates me to be better and learn all I can. In this lifestyle if you ever reach the point where you feel you know it all and there's nothing left for you to learn then you are in the wrong lifestyle. There is always something to learn or ways that you can improve.

 

What’s the best experience you’ve had so far? 

My favourite experience so far was my first experience with my babygirl. The first time I brought the lifestyle up and she was excited about it. It was one of the many times that she has brought out my primal side.

 

What’s the worst experience you’ve had so far?                                                               

My worst experience so far was with someone who catfished me and claimed to be someone she wasn't. We talked for a long time and when we finally decided meet in person, she had led me on with false pictures and false information about who she was and everything was fake.

 

What are your thoughts on polygamy?

Polygamy….. Interesting question. I have always been a monogamous person but recently my babygirl brought up the subject of bringing another female into the relationship. Another sub to play with and eventually grow with. Something to blossom into a poly fidelity relationship.

 

Dizzy

 

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