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BDSM Interview: Michael

Michael is an alpha dom who loves rope play and fetish-inspired lingerie. He tells us more about his lifestyle in this interview.

 

How long have you been an alpha dom?

Quite a while now, as far as fully understanding my dynamic a few years.

 

Describe what being an alpha dom means to you?

An investment in my submissive of life choices beyond just bedroom and fetish play. Wanting to truly have them succeed in life in all matters be that business, pleasure or hobby. To see them better their mental and physical standings in life and come to know things about themselves and others they did not quite comprehend before.

 

How did you first get into it and how old were you?

I realised I enjoyed this very early on (probably 14) but did not understand the reasoning behind my pleasure in the engagement of control.

 

What name do you and your sub go by?

It depends but Mr and Sir are very impersonal to me and I am not a fan of either. I did enjoy a sub who refereed to me as Lord very much, especially since a Lord protects.

 

What’s your favourite experience/thing to do with your sub?

The first meet when I get to observe their behaviour; are they shy, bratty, outspoken nervous. I enjoy being able to learn their body language and the way they hold themselves, chin high or lowered eye contact or not, shaken voice or solidarity in their thoughts.

 

What’s your favourite kink?

So far rope play, knotting and restraints. Edging is enjoyable as well.

 

What do you like your sub to wear?

Fishnets and lingerie, short skirts and heels - anything she can replace easily since it will usually be ripped or cut off during a session.

 

What is your favourite sex toy?

Sex swings are fun, as are anal plugs and gags. And a good flogger is always useful.

 

Do you have any advice for anyone looking to get into being a dom?

Read up on the lifestyle and ask questions of other doms and subs. Don’t rush a session into sexual play; learn about your submissive as much as possible before engaging.

 

What’s the worst experience you’ve had so far?

A female who thought she knew what she wanted and thought she was a submissive but after engaging further into a session, she decided she was going to give monogamy and vanilla culture another shot.

 

Describe your ideal sub

Open minded and wanting to be an eternity sub. Eventually HWP, with a bit of a mouth.

 

What do you think of fetish-inspired lingerie?

I love it, period.

 

What was your first ever experience like as a dom? How did it make you feel?

Exhilarating and fulfilling; I felt as though I had discovered a part of my eternal energy that had been lost.

 

Are you open with your lifestyle online and with family and friends?

200%. They all know how we are and what we do.

 

Where did you meet your sub?

I'm currently in process of finding a suitable sub. I met my first sub at High School.

 

What/who inspires you?

Sam Elliot. Since I was young, I have thought that he is the perfect example of a strong male; honest, blunt, no bull shit... He treats people with respect, and he commands it from others as well.

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